Taking Action

What does it take for you to go up and talk with that hottie?

How do you motivate/push yourself?

I want you to think about something. How do you do anything? What makes you decide and actually do it?

Some people just tell themselves to, like the Nike slogan and just do it. Others plan and take calculated risk. Some even say just fuck it and do it, not caring at all what others think, or what the consequences are.

We all have to take action in every day life. Even if it’s getting out of bed on a cold morning, we just have to do it. What makes you decide to get out of bed is different for everyone, do you kick yourself and think of the consequences like the loss of job and feel guilty? Or is it thinking of the benefits, e.g. creating an amazing kick ass day, learning as much as you can today?

What I found that makes me do anything is a combination of knowing what the consequences will be if I don’t do it, and the pleasure I will get if I do take action.

I think about the people who have died before me, and haven’t achieved their life’s dreams.

A popular pickup artist out there has counted the waking hours you have before your death. There aren’t that many. You can just start checking them off.

An exercise in mortality is to walk by the cemetery, see how much time one really has on earth. No one is guaranteed a long life and even if you do have one, further down the years, no one remembers you, as they have all died too. Its almost as if you haven’t actually existed! Read the years on the tombstones to see how short people have lived on this earth. You can use this as a great motivator to take action.

I know what also motivates me is the thought I don’t want to die without experiencing beautiful women. Hot sex with a beautiful woman is an excellent motivator. Picture your ideal woman clearly with all the features, the color of her eyes, the sound of her voice, and the shape of her body. Then picture your second type of ideal woman, and then have both of them with you in a Jacuzzi. Pure motivation!

After this is ingrained in you, the physical action of approaching that hottie, and being your best self doesn’t seem like a big deal. The big deal and the tougher decision of the two is mulling in a corner, being too fearful to go up and talk.

With enough practice you might even get a sense of fun when you do it, and want to approach in funner, more exciting ways that entertain you. You might even want to give value to others, because after all is said and done if you are going to die, you might as well give the important things to others that costs absolutely nothing.

You only have one life, one opportunity. What will it be, the guy who sits down and settles? Or the guy who takes action and goes for what he wants in this short life.

See how both the positive and negative will shape you.