Number 1 Game

How do you bring your number 1 game?

We’re sure like most guys in the field, you’ve have had your share of stellar nights where EVERYTHING is in flow and rhythm.  Yet at other times you’ve tanked, and can’t believe you’ve been going out for so long, and still getting bad results.

We found a few things you can do right now, that will help minimize those “off” nights. 

Consider how great it would be to have the following habits:

 Go out like you own the night.  If you’ve been in the community for some time, you’ve probably heard advice to go out and feel what it is to own the nightclub.  Well at Social Breakthrough we say to have the belief that you OWN the night instead.  This is your night.  If you really want to have a good night, it has to be from the very beginning, starting from this powerful belief.

 Before leaving your house, be in state.  We don’t say, “get in state”, we say “Be in state”.  As soon as you get in the shower, bring it, bring that energy, sing, dance, whatever it takes.  Motion creates Emotion. 

Look at yourself in the mirror and repeat “Every girl wants me in every way” .  :) Repeat it, and make it real for yourself.  Then say the affirmation “Everybody is my friend”.  Repeat it many times, and believe it.

 Jump in your car and blare the radio, or favorite CD.  Put your hand out the window, and do the party sign.  You’ll change the state of the passerby’s too!  Visualize an amazing night. 

 When you park the car, do some crazy stuff; yell your affirmations out loud.  Make it a little competition (if you have a wing) that whomever does the craziest shit wins.

 Begin talking to the people in the club’s lineup.  Give them value.  Create it, and create the party, and feel it.  Ask the bouncer and the doorman their names, and how their night is so far.  Do all this without expecting anything in return.

 Once you’re inside the club, don’t be scared to do some crazy moves, and to be yourself.

Always, Always, Always approach the first set you see.  I cannot stress how important this is to start off the night on a good foot. If you make some fanciful excuse why you don’t feel like it, you will find it easy to accept your excuses for the whole night.

 Most of all have fun this night.

 Here at Social Breakthrough we know these things are a big bonus to having an amazing night.  We take it one step further and make our lives outstanding, then just ‘pickup’.  By just doing these things, you’ll find approaching and succeeding with women will be the most natural thing.

 Have fun out there!

 Razor